Finally....

Yesterday was what I can officially call Thanksgiving. I cooked ( everything), we ate with family, then went and visited more family and ate some more. It was great, like when I was little. It was sooo much fun, being around the people you love, eating some amazing food and having wonderful fellowship. That is the way it should be. Thank God we didnt have to go and spend it with the ex again and wont have to from now on. See, next year will be her year again, but J.T is turning 18. This new age does not come without some mixed emotions, at least for me. I am glad for him that he will be 18 and wont have to deal with her and her crap anymore, but sad for me and Jamey because our son is all grown up and heck I just got him only a few short years ago. I wasn't sure how I would handle this situation, but now I can see it is going to be like any other mother who's child is all grown up and ready to move on. Anywho, of course she had to ruin the night, it was going too perfect i guess. But it just kills me, she can pick and chose when she calls and when she texts and answers back, but we have to answer her right away. Well last night Brooke spent the night with her auntie Gale and J.T said he didnt want to talk to her, so after a few ignored calls and texts she sends this: "I GUESS YOUR NOT GOING TO LET ME TALK TO MY KIDS ARE YOU"? Well this boiled a fire in my soul so deep I wanted to spit, but J.T got on the phone and well, she got to talk to him but, probably not about what she wanted to hear. Needless to say it was a very short phone call! But I just dont understand why some people cant take a hint. But other than this 30 minute catastrophe my day was incredibly perfect. One for the books I think!! Happy be-lated Thanksgiving to all my dear Family! I love you!